Lesbianism is the sexual and romantic desire between females, while Gayism refers to men. There are far fewer historical mentions of lesbinism than male homosexuality, due to many historical writings and records focusing primarily on men.
Lesbianism is "generally accepted" in our society and women are "lesbians in nature"
It's so easy to see a lady appreciating another lady's "assets" (Mammary glands, Hips and Buttocks for example) even in public, without causing a stir. Women freely "adjust" another clothes to look good, they even beat stories in the toilet 🚽 while doing their thing, women even exchange notes in the shower... Let alone sleeping together or even sharing a room in case they travel for work or seminars out in the field.
On the contrary, No man would ordinarily tell another they have awesome 6 pack, nice chest, nice biceps etc, not even in a dream. No man would knowingly adjust another man's collar (Utaiskia, "...wewe tengeneza collar yako"..), Men (even best friends) will go mute 🔇 the time they enter the "GENTS", do their thing in silence and start talking after the irrigation. No one makes a sound while holding the horse pipe. For long call 🚽, men play dead literally. Men DON'T shower together and will never share a room, Hata Kama uchumi ni mbaya... Not even brothers will sleep on the same bed comfortably. One will use the bed, another the couch... NOTE THAT I'm talking about straight men here.
DISCLAIMER: If your brother, Boyfriend, husband, male relative or "friend" does these things "generally regarded as bad", it's none of my business.
NB: A good percentage of men "will not have a problem" if they knew their women were lesbians and having a female partner, but NO WOMAN (read as few women) would stay more than a minute with a man once they know that the man is gay... Yaani anafunguanga server.
Good day.
